"No One Killed Jessica!-"But Who Killed The Others?"

JUSTICE TO JESSICA

VISIT WIKIPEDIA FOR DETAILED INFORMATION:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Jessica_Lall 

BUT WHO KILLED OTHERS?

Coming out of the movie,I was all in praise for the makers of it who kept the entire audience spellbound for almost 2 hours and 20 minutes.Justice delayed is justice denied but Jessica won-Her supporters won-India Won! A joint effort of many people relived the forgotten memories, of "one Jessica",who ever lived. 

A BIG QUESTION?

At the same time,however, one question was bothering me..Jessica,even after her brutal murder was given justice which in a way invoked our faith,in our Judiciary,Our System BUT WHAT ABOUT OTHERS whose case even after so may hearings,investigations are standing at the brink of closure!Say like Aarushi Talwar,Soumya Ranganathan or Nafisa Joseph's suicide?

Who will investigate these cases and make movies for them?We all watch,talk,discuss and then get involved in our routine affairs!Why aren't movies made on "NITHARI KILLERS?"Probably  because it can not be glamorized.

High profile incidents ,which fires the imagination of a common man wanting to reach  out these places,say expensive ,glittering Disc.,Bars,Pubs, coupled with Beautiful Models, flavored with aroma of Political Power is  categorized by own commercial film makers and put to market for sale.

Here I am reminded of Shobhaa De's lines " I came away savouring the few and far between flashes of a newbie called Myra , who plays Jessica with verve and freshness. Had there been more of Myra in the movie, it might have kept more people in the audience absorbed and awake."So she too like others wanted more of MYRA(JESSICA),i.e. Glamor and Sizzle......So the message is clear.Everyone wants Glamor And Sizzle.And the film makers are picking up the topics which are doing JUSTICE TO THEIR POCKETS BUT "IT IS NOT FOR JESSICA'S JUSTICE".

Source:http://shobhaade.blogspot.com/2011/01/jessica-lives.html

 Before marketing too, its Promos were also very well marketed to make money...well nothing is actually bad in all this as everyone is making it but shouldn't many other incidents locked up in Pandora's Box too be taken out for Public Display -For The Sake Of Justice-I bet they should be,And I bet you'll agree too!
Now The Same Link On Network18( connect.in.com ) too,CLICK: 

http://connect.in.com/rashmi-singh/blog/the-rivierabeauty-of-confidence-by-rashmi-no-one-killed--229401-4.html

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For more posts of Rashmi Singh,visit connect.in.com(Network18)
http://connect.in.com/rashmi-singh/blog/the-rivierabeauty-of-confidence-by-rashmi-dating-the-rapes--229401-6.html

BEAUTIES WHO TOPPED THE "TOPLESS TANTALIZERS"..."MANDIRA OR NIGAR"!

 BEAUTIES WHO TOPPED THE TOPLESS TANTALIZERS!
MADHBALA,MEENAKUMARI,WAHEEDA-WHERE ARE THE DAYS GONE???

 "IS THIS TRUE AND HONEST ACTING OR "AN ENTERTAINMENT FIASCO??"

"Delhi Times", of 9th December,2011,has finally declared the Viewers Choice of THE MOST DESIRABLE CELIBRITY AS HRITHIK AND KATRINA, respectively IN 2010.In fact the song "Sheila ki jawaani" has catapulted Katrina to this position once again in a row which is a rare phenomenon .while this decade saw the beauties and many celebrities, slyly and stealthily slipping to oblivion...The eternal Aishwarya Rai making to ,no.2 position and last year's Ranbir slipping to no.3 position consecutively!!AND MANY OTHER PROMINENT ONES NOWHERE TO BE FOUND!

FRUSTRATION,FASHION OR "FUNDAS!":

WHO CAN FORGET THE INITIAL ATTEMPTS OF KATRINA IN THE MOVIE "BOOM" ...USING VULGARITY TO REACH STARDOM..not like yesteryear heroines who strictly forbade such obscenity at any cost-today the principle is to gain success at any cost-cost being personal or professional!

sS

 SOURCE:http://blog.buzzintown.com/index.php/2010/05/katrina-boom-ki-hottie-baby-doll-se-rajniti-ki-sonia-gandhi-tak/

The effort to remain at the top and to be the most DESIRABLE has made many actresses  and models, jump to the pan of boiling NUDITY mindlessly!Actually when the game is running out of their hands like"slipping sand",they think that GOING NUDE CAN HELP AND MAINTAIN THEIR MARKET!!OR IF NOT ANYTHING SOME FAST BUCKS CAN DEFINITELY BE MADE!Many famous ones too like Bipasha, Ameesha, Kareena and others are actively involved in the RACE OF BEING SEMI NUDE OR TOPLESS SUGGESTIVELY!

SOURCE:http://bollywoodjunction.co.in/bollywood-news-events/2008/01/21/kareena-goes-from-bikini-to-topless-for-saif-ali-khan/

Without  being verbose ,and trying to show my knowledge of a simple subject that even a"chaiwala" of Delhi  easily understands..errr..i.e. which posters to  use to shield his "chaidukaan"(tea stall), in this biting cold-definitely ones in  which the models are wearing skimpiest or no clothes at all.......

But this is also true that these heroines or models,never reach the galore of "true success"-they are only success with masses who whistle and fantasize over their curvaceous,luscious naked bodies,so I think a new name for them should be invented.."HUMAN TANTALIZERS" INSTEAD OF ACTORS AS THEY ARE MORE TANTALIZING WITH THEIR NUDE AND TOPLESS PICTURES THAN ACTING! THE NEW ONES WHEN DO,IT IS SOMEWHAT ACCEPTABLE BUT WHEN THE ESTABLISHED ONES RESORT TO ALL SUCH ACTIVITIES-IT IS CERTAINLY THEIR INSECURITY!

Whether it is their insecurity or boldness but if it entertains the masses it is good -but if makes the people astray and mentally perverse then WE HAVE TO THINK!

Forgotten are the days of Meena Kumari, Wahida Rehman, Madhubala and and other contemporaries of their era who flaunted their beauty in aesthetic sense which took  men!'s breath away!Beauty had a subtle and a higher meaning-their beauties coupled with acting prowess intoxicated even the geniuses mind!THEY INTOXICATED AND TOPPED ALL THE ACTORS OF THE PRESENT GENERATION WITHOUT BEING TOPLESS!

rashmi.

HONOR KILLING HONORED....U.K. OR INDIA..PURIFYING PUTRID KARMA??

A FORGOTTEN STORY.....AARUSHI OR BANAZ -HONOR SNATCHED BEFORE HONORING???
U.K. OR INDIA IT IS THE SAME!

LONDON-A father, was found guilty of murdering his own daughter, Banaz Mahmod,20.,as she was IN LOVE WITH WRONG PERSON. Banaz , brutally slain on his order was strangled with boot lace,stuffed into suitcase and buried in the back garden.

The most horrifying part of the story was that SHE WAS RAPED AND TORTURED before the gruesome  act of "PURIFYING HER SO CALLED PUTRID KARMA".

Source: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-469553/Two-hour-rape-torture-honour-killing-girl-murdered-family.html

ISLAM DOES NOT ADVOCATE HONOR KILLINGS:

Let us understand the meanings of these lines "There is absolutely nothing in Islamic literature or jurisprudence that advocates, sanctions or even allows honor killings".So those practising these brutal acts should be openly condemned!
Source: http://ahmadiyyatimes.blogspot.com/2009/12/honor-killing-in-islam-no-not-at-all.html
 

ANOTHER EXAMPLE WHERE "MEN WERE BUTCHERED":
 

THE INDIAN SCENARIO- AARUSHI'S MURDER -IS IT A CASE OF HONOR KILLING?
Though India has progressed and has become a leader in many zones in Global Front but if peeped  inside the minds of those dwelling in villages and sometimes cities too,a glaring shocking truth can be seen crouched stealthily inside! Many couples were and are being butchered mercilessly,because those controlling the strings of their lives were/are not happy with their true love leading to marriages! However many a times the Govt. has promised that such happenings would be put to a dead end and the butchers would b punished but all in vain.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Death-penalty-for-honour-killing/articleshow/6140768.cms

According to Wikipedia,an honor killing is known as the murder of a member of a family or other members,due to the belief,that the victim has brought DISHONOR to the family or community.But it is seen that such killings are mostly directed towards women or girls.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Honor_killing

The end of 2010 saw a closing of the most discussed murder of the decade,"AARUSHI MURDER CASE" in India, as the most Respectable Investigating Institution  C.B.I. ,believed that since  now i.e after the passage of almost about two years,no subtle "threads"  or evidences were found so the case must be packed not to be reopened again!DEFINITELY A CALLOUS ATTITUDE OF THE MOST PRESTIGIOUS INVESTIGATING AUTHORITY OF INDIA!"

I wonder what the Parents might have felt AT THIS ATTITUDE OF C.B.I.' s .I really wonder when  ,after the "hungama" of so many N.G.O.'s and the Opposition, how the Parents might be feeling when the fingers are pointed to them once again.Since the matter is sub judice,I think I should refrain myself from passing any judgement but as common people,we do have full right to know what is going on!

RECENT JUDGEMENT:(7th January,2011)
"The CBI’s closure report in the Aarushi murder case submitted on Wednesday claims it was the 13-year-old’s father, Dr Rajesh Talwar, who killed her."

BUT C.B.I. HAS STILL TO FIND SUBTLE EVIDENCES AGAINST THEM.
LINK:
http://www.hindustantimes.com/Father-prime-suspect-in-Aarushi-murder-case-CBI/Article1-644987.aspx

NOW LET US WAIT,WATCH AND SEE WHETHER AARUSHI GETS JUSTICE OR NOT? 

  

A HEART WRENCHING TALIBANI TALE OF KHAP PANCHAYAT:THE "GOTRA (SUBCASTE)TALE!"

Khap Panchayat of Haryana has demanded to amend the HINDU MARRIAGE ACT.They want addition of the provision in the act to ban the marriage that takes place between the boys and girls of same "gotras".Actually their sole "TALIBANI" MOVE is to defend those who are responsible for the murder of Babli and Manoj.The duo married,though of the same "gotra".Karnal Sessions Court has awarded death sentence to five and one life sentence! BUT LET US SEE WHETHER THESE BUTCHERS ARE HANGED OR NOT!

 http://thinkahead.net.in/same-gotra-marriage-ban-%E2%80%93-khap-haryana.html

HERE IS AN EXCERPT FROM MY ANOTHER POST:http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2010/08/rage-of-fallen-angels-satan-snatches.html

When a group of tribal elders becomes the judge and jury and passes a sentence of gang rape against a young girl to shame her family, the outcome can only be inhuman. In June this year, in remote Meerwala village, 610 kms from the capital Islamabad, young Mukhtiar Mai wept and pleaded for mercy when she heard the verdict. But the 18-year-old was dragged into a mud hut and gang raped, while a crowd of a few hundred stood outside.

VISIT:

http://www.boloji.com/wfs/wfs084.htm

TILL WHEN...till when this act, attitude ,mentality is going to be a slag heap and destroy the lives of millions! The serious issue is this how can these murderers roam scot free in the society!Till When..Yes Till When the girls have to pay the price of "false honor?"And if at all there is something wrong i.e if at all the said person is going on the wrong path, isn't it the duty of the Parents to counsel them! DEATH PENALTY IN TALIBANI STYLE IS NO SOLUTION  IN THE NAME OF "PURIFYING PUTRID(ROTTEN) KARMA(DEEDS OF PREVIOUS AND THIS  LIFE)AND THE CONTINUATION OF THIS HEINOUS ACT IS ONLY A BLOTCH ON THE FACE OF "SAID PROGRESSIVE HUMANITY"!

READ A BEAUTIFUL STORY OF LOVE WHERE THE FEAR OF GUNS DID NOT LET THE ROSES OF LOVE TO BLOSSOM: http://rrashmi211.blogspot.com/2010/06/tryst-with-destiny.html

 rashmi.

INSANE,SEXUAL,SICKENING -CROSS BOW CANNIBALISM!!!

 HE CAN BE ANYWHERE NEAR..BEWARE!!

A recent incident,just before the Christmas has shocked the people of Britain, when a Criminology Student,Stephen Griffith  who dubbed himself as "the crossbow cannibal" was jailed to life after he pleaded guilty on Tuesday 21st December 2010.

SOURCE:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40765924/ns/world_news-europe/ 

 

Apart from what we read,Cannibalism or eating flesh is said to be a part of Indian Tantra, too,or is rather believed to be. The Aghori or Aghora, who consider themselves to be the denizens of the "charnel(burial) ground",command extreme reverence from rural populations as they are supposed to possess powers to heal and relieve pain gained due to their intense practices,are believed to consume the corpse of dead bodies.However majority Hindus  vehemently oppose this line of thought!

SOURCE:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aghori

Now Let Us See What Wikipedia Has To Say About Cannibalism
According to it, IT IS THE ACT OR PRACTICE OF HUMANS EATING FLESH OF OTHER HUMAN BEINGS.

SOURCE
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cannibalism 

Now let us read how Griffith was caught.Here is the detail :


"Griffiths was caught when a caretaker at the flats where he lived reviewed overnight CCTV recordings and saw horrific footage of Suzanne’s final moments - her running out of Griffiths’ flat with her killer in pursuit.
She was then seen being dragged along the ground by her leg by Griffiths before he shot her in the head with a crossbow.
When he was arrested Griffiths bragged he had eaten his victims’ flesh, adding: “That’s part of the magic.”
Family members sobbed as the prosecutor outlined details of the murders.

Judge Mr Justice Openshaw told Griffiths he would never be released from prison.

 HERE IS GRIFFITH'S CROSSBOW WHICH HE USED TO KILL HIS VICTIMS!
SOURCE:
http://www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/2010/12/21/self-proclaimed-crossbow-cannibal-stephen-griffiths-pleads-guilty-to-murder-of-three-prostitutes-86908-22798244/

WAS GRIFFITH'S SUPPOSEDLY SEX MAD MOTHER RESPONSIBLE?
Some have claimed that this was a ­reaction to the reported promiscuity of his mother, whose endless liaisons are said to featured alfresco sex in her back garden in full view of her neighbours.
But I believe that Griffiths’s ­violence stemmed more from his own chronic sexual inadequacy. By all accounts, he could not perform like a normal man.
His impotence seems to have brought out two frightening traits. One was to turn his anger on women, whom he could not ­satisfy.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1340980/Crossbow-Cannibal-Stephen-Griffiths-fame-obsession-led-serial-killer.html#ixzz1B1t45hl3

BUT IS THIS ANYTHING NEW?AN INDIAN INCIDENT!

But is this anything new?Have we forgotten the NITHARI KILLINGS OF INDIA?ACCUSATIONS,CHARGES, PUNISHMENTS BUT THE ACCUSED ARE STILL ALIVE AND WOULD BE IT SEEMS BE ALIVE TILL ALL THE  PENDING CASES WOULD NOT BE DECIDED AND BY THEN THE ACCUSED WOULD BE WELL ABOVE EIGHTY YEARS OF AGE OR SO.  SO TO DIE  AT THAT AGE OR NOT TO DIE ,WILL HARDLY HAVE ANY MEANING FOR THEM!

Read:

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/nithari-case-timeline-discovery-of-skulls-to-judgement/85154-3.html
Or Read Another Kind Of Cannibalism:
http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2011/01/honor-killing-honoreduk-or.html

SEXUAL OR SICKENING CANNIBALISM
Let us read an excerpt from the link below
http://www.newstrackindia.com/newsdetails/67334

"Earlier, Surendra Koli had confessed his crime in the recorded statement by CBI. It was also medically proved that Koli was suffering from necrophilia (urge to have sex with a corpse) and necrophagia (urge to eat the flesh of a body)."
 IT  IS SICKENING-HOW CAN A SANE MAN EVER HAVE A SEXUAL INTERCOURSE WITH A DEAD BODY? BUT KOLI DID!


PSYCHIATRISTS SAY-SEXUAL CANNIBALISM IS A SERIOUS,GRIEVOUS DISEASES WHICH REQUIRES EXTREME ATTENTION.THESE CANNIBALS DUE TO THEIR INFERIORITY AND OTHER KINDS OF COMPLEXES WANT TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT THEY ARE NO LESS AND ADHERE TO MEANS WHICH IN NO WAY CAN BE THINKABLE TO A SANE PERSON.
READ HOW THE SELF DUBBED CROSSBOW CANNIBAL ADMITTED HIS CRIME:
http://www.nypost.com/p/news/international/hooker_killer_suspect_creepy_court_EDLk5wM4Ya4PL8TkYnNJvN

Actually according to a famous Psychiatrist SEXUAL CANNIBALISM IS A SERIOUS SICKENING DISEASE where the person's neurosis, inferiority complex, sexual attractions, inadequacies and all insecurities seem to engulf his sexual development and does not not let his sexuality to develop positively.BY CONSUMING A PART OF A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AFTER RAPING HER ,HE GAINS A SUPREME POSITION,POWER AND CONTROL IN HIS IMAGINARY WORLD.ITS HIS ULTIMATE WAY OF POSSESSING AND HAVING CONTROL OVER HER! 
Recently in Delhi, A Software Engineer killed his wife and kept his dead body in fridge after cutting into pieces!

SOURCE:

http://www.monstersandcritics.com/news/southasia/news/article_1605240.php/Indian-arrested-for-butchering-wife-hiding-body-in-fridge

The craziest thing is this in Japan,such people at times gain sympathy and are celebrated as intellectual,writer and artist ad let off easily after committing such crimes.AND THAT THERE ARE LADY CANNIBALS TOO!

SOURCE:
http://mindkandysinterracialdebateandrelations.yuku.com/topic/5084
COMING BACK TO CROSS BOW CANNIBAL

let us come back to the recent Crossbow Cannibal, Griffith,40, has admitted killing Suzanne Blamires,36, Shelly Armitage,31,  ad Susan Rushworth,43 at his Bradford home which he had turned a slaughterhouse,ironically like Surender Koli and Pandher of Noida(India).U.K.Court has however  is believed to rule out release of Griffith under any circumstance but who will get justice to the innocent victims of Nithari?

This is not a DRAMA TO BE VIEWED AND FORGOTTEN..A FINAL CURTAIN HAS TO BE DRAWN TO NAIL SUCH ACCUSED ROAMING FREELY IN OUR SOCIETY!

READ A STORIES OF MENTAL CANNIBALISM
: http://rrashmi211.blogspot.com/2009/08/oceans-of-loneliness-standing-near.html

Now The Same Link On Network18( connect.in.com ) too,CLICK: 

http://connect.in.com/rashmi-singh/blog/the-rivierabeauty-of-confidence-by-rashmi-insanesexual--229401-5.html 
rashmi.

SUPERSTITION, SPIRITUALITY ,SALVATION AND SEX.......CRAVING CARNATIONS

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Forgetting First Love-Who Is Asking To?

FIRST LOVE SYNDROME

The sun shone on the fine gravel of the beach and I saw a very distressed woman in her  early forties trying to suppress her "seething sadness".Now you can ask,"how can sadness be seething?" True sadness should be depressed and subdued, something simmering on  low flame, gnawing away the heart gradually ,so how can it be "seething"But, I think her "distressed situation" was seething as her body postures were not at all feigning her fidgety condition! Restlessness spurt from every mannerism of hers! Definitely,she wanted to talk-talk to anybody,even a stranger,but I was not ready to do so because after a tiring conference and satisfying string of events in my life ,I was in no mood to spoil my evening.So the best was to ignore her completely but somewhere in me,my compassion which I had so securely buried under a blanket of current happiness defied me and though I didn't want myself to get bugged but still shifted gradually near her with an inquisitive eye!

Muffling up her reddened face  in her large handkerchief,she looked up to me in despair and hope-despair,as she was quite convinced her life had been a waste-hope .....because, somewhere she thought, I would come,sit beside her and listen her woeful tales. I chided myself for being selfish for overlooking a person "who thought was totally out of repair",not paying heed to her needs!


The tale which she narrated was nothing new or devastating! She was in fact another one suffering from "not being able to forget first love " AHHH!!! How many people would be tortured by this syndrome! I think some take their past affairs as flings or simply a relationship which didn't work and move ahead in life positively,while few not so blessed,dwell in their pasts never look ahead towards all the opportunities life hold for them, always dwelling in it, dooming and shutting the doors of their minds and souls to shimmering rays trying to enter their doomed minds!

I moved towards her a little more convincingly and a little more comfortingly.The story which she narrated but was nothing new,only this that when almost she had reconciled with her situations, she had once again bumped into him accidentally  on the path of life!Now this too didn't seem to me very unusual,as I have come across many people who have been meeting and are friends to their ex!


True everything happens but here the lady seemed adamant not to forget her once short affair which still had great impact on her life,so much so that she wasnot able to concentrate on her home, her children! So I could perceive,she was equally connected to "her home and her children".This was a big respite as after few sessions,I could see, she could be fully cured!EMOTIONAL HEALING IS THE BEST HEALING! Her emotions were just like as depicted in the link below:

http://my.opera.com/Tearx/blog/2008/09/06/learn-to-forget-someone 


I  could see a ray of hope, as she was still attached to her family AND CONVINCED HER SOMEHOW THAT SHE WAS NOT THE ONLY ONE SUFFERING  from this feeling of rejection,loss and despair! Like her,there were many others or probably everyone in his/her life faces this "syndrome" but then why do we have to punish ourselves with a feelings of guilt,despair and rejection.Have we come on this earth only to face 'love syndrome" or there are other aspects of our lives too which need dire attention!

I asked her is she a "coward" or a "valiant?" She seemed baffled and could not get what I meant.I had to be more explicit and quoted Julius Caesar's lines,"Cowards die many times before death,the valiant never taste of death but once!".She seemed to be more puzzled-more baffled!Wiping her non stoppable tears she asked what I actually meant.And my answer was if she was ready to quit everything else in life  to dwell in a state of "REACHING NONSENSE"MOREOVER WHO IS ASKING HER TO FORGET HER FIRST LOVE? SHE  HAS TO HELP HERSELF TO OVERCOME HER PAST AND IF NOT LET THE BEAUTY OF IT FILL HER VERY VALUABLE PRESENT WITH THE  LINGERING FRAGRANCE OF HER PAST LOVE TO ATTAIN SOMETHING POSITIVE ,AS RUNNING AWAY FROM LIFE AND CRIBBING OVER WHAT CANNOT BE ATTAINED ANYMORE IS NOT THE SOLUTION!As life is not very kind and teaches each one of us something !Things seemed to seep into her rock like brain and I took a long breath of relief as I did not want the beautiful evening to slide into oblivion where I too was busy doing calculations of my life.............

However if readers want,they can visit the link below for first love experiences!

LET LOVE FRAGRANCE FUME..READ:
http://rrashmi211.blogspot.com/2010/11/fragrance-fuming.html


http://www.ivillage.com/first-loves-why-we-never-forget-them-0/4-a-283243

OR
http://www.reallove.com/about.asp

rashmi. 

RAGE OF THE FALLEN ANGELS-SATAN SNATCHES SEX!

RAGE OF THE SATAN
REAL MEN DO NOT RAPE!

"RAGE OF THE ANGELS", very beautifully etched the mesmerizing Jennifer Parker's , character. The power she had to win over and achieve her defined targets, though foul play too was involved!

But with the advancing time, I feel all such characters are now buried in pages of "bestsellers"  AND "RAGE OF THE FALLEN ANGELS" is  ruckusly ruling. The once angelic minds of people  are in grip of venomous SATANIC FANGS .Women and girls are still, continually, tormented, tortured, traumatized and bullied for their boldness.
read how friendship saves from bullies
http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2010/02/confidencecamarderie-and-cleopatra.html

Newspapers these days are abuzz with incidents which in any case can tear minds and souls of people apart but the present genre has definitely no time to delve in the dark graves burying in itself skeletons of shameful , lurid , pervert , inhumane tortures of lechers - heinous mental and physical killers , biting , shredding , pouncing  flesh of the woman they desire,subsequently charring their mental demeanor !Just as it happened of Iraqi Torture by the U.S. ARMY

"SNATCH  IF YOU DON GET", This ideology is currently prevailing amongst the common people-whether it be a job, position,exams and so on.Cut throat competition is making people bleed,driving them to the brink of madness.AND THIS COMPETITION SOMETIMES MAKES ITS  PRESENCE IN THE FIELD OF SEX TOO-IF "THEY" DON'T GET THE DESIRED, "THEY" "SNATCH",forgetting a moment of pleasure not only ruins the victim's entire life but their  own lives too as "sins never go unpunished" !
READ A STORY OF SEXUAL MANIAC: http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2010/12/insanesexualsickening-cross-bow.html 

Sometimes RAGE OF RAPE is purposely directed towards a community by other communities or "upper hands".Here is a raging example taken from the link below


http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/28454-operation-rape-sikh-women-shudhee-karan/

"But unfortunately, many Sikh women were also the target of the bloody thirsty Indian Security forces. Sikh women were ruthlessly tortured, not only physically but also mentally. They were used as tools to force the surrender of Sikh fighters who were their relatives and also as a means of humiliating families. When Sikh women were arrested with their husbands, the husbands were often forced to watch the rape of their wives. Rape was used as an interrogation tool"

RAPE AS AN INTERROGATION TOOL was even used during Iraq war,this cannot be denied.For more information visit:


http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2010/04/rape-and-rage-humans-or-animals.html

RAPES INCIDENTS HIDDEN:Many a times rape incidents are put under covers as the family doesn't want to put their "family in shame and tarnish their image"!The victim may languish in pain but VISIT A HEART RENDING REAL STORY OF MARITAL RAPE AND TORTURE:
http://rrashmi211.blogspot.com/2009/08/oceans-of-loneliness-standing-near.html

Here is another excerpt which highlights that sex is snatched not only for pleasure but is exhibited on women and girls to thwart them as well as their family for any offence which "they" think is objectionable!

When a group of tribal elders becomes the judge and jury and passes a sentence of gang rape against a young girl to shame her family, the outcome can only be inhuman. In June this year, in remote Meerwala village, 610 kms from the capital Islamabad, young Mukhtiar Mai wept and pleaded for mercy when she heard the verdict. But the 18-year-old was dragged into a mud hut and gang raped, while a crowd of a few hundred stood outside.

VISIT:

http://www.boloji.com/wfs/wfs084.htm

There are thousandths of such examples which is murkier than muck where friends too betray trust. INCIDENTS WHICH PROVE WE STILL ARE ANIMALS AND NOT HUMANS. INCIDENTS WHICH MAKE OUR HEARTS NUMB AND MAKE US BELIEVE IN "THE RAGE OF THE FALLEN ANGELS". SO AS HUMANS LET US COME FORWARD PUSHING OUR LURID THOUGHTS AWAY ,REMOVING THE BLOTCH FROM THE FACE OF HUMANITY !

Another Way Of Protest Is Like This:
SOURCE:
http://www.commondreams.org/headlines04/0719-03.htm  

READ SHOCKING TRUTH OF DATE RAPES AND DATE DRUGS:
http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2010/12/dating-rapesa-simple-truth-of-date.html 

Sometimes people resort to other unfair thoughts too Read
 http://shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com/2010/12/bed-buddies-or-friends-with-benefits-is.html


rashmi.

STILLED LIFE-BLEEDING INCIDENTS-SURVIVING THE SUPERNATURAL.....

TO BELIEVE OR NOT TO BELIEVE?  WHAT IS THE SCIENCE OF TANTRAS? India once considered as land of superstitions,still has some reminiscences  of  Ruth Prawer Jhabvala's heat and dust ,wrapped in a blanket of mystery .Mysteries which still attract people to come and breathe here and seek peace,solace and discover new meanings of life.   But the incident which took place with me shook the roots of my life and almost uprooted it.My educational background i.e. graduating from prestigious Carmel College and equally renowned schools like Notre Dame and Loreto Convent  never permitted me to venture or even think about the"relished unbelievable of human mind". Due to some unavoidable circumstances,I always had to move places in India-in a way it was very traumatic as being an emotional person, it was very difficult for me to make friends again ,connect and adjust in a completely unknown environment, etching a place of survival....traversing this unavoidable journey, almost thirteen years ago I reached a small town, Moradabad in Uttar Pradesh-the town which could not boast of anything  but filth, dirt, and money. The people there were mainly involved in Brass Businesses minting money, bragging about their lifestyles, though their palatial houses were situated in places where pigs would love to inspect day and night but yes the"items produced in their factories were definitely breathtakingly beautiful in contrast to their places of survival." After a few days of my stay,in the heart of the city known as Civil Lines,I began to suffer from bouts of depression,which people thought was pure fabrication of my ever active and creative mind.But my plight did not stop here,I recurrently started falling sick and finally was down with "typhoid",which again was considered to be a very common ailment amongst Indians! So after all there was nothing which I was facing, new! IS ANYTHING BURNING? How can I forget the evening when I went berserk, searching for "the element" burning in my house and producing foul smell-I looked each nook and corner of my house but lo as nothing was supposed to be found-hence nothing was found.Now you may ask why am I making a statement like this?I am making such a statement because somehow the stories narrated to me by neighbors were now making ways into my mind....that a woman in the house in which I lived was burnt to death!Well no one was however able to tell ,who burnt her and exactly what had happened.But she died in the very house in which I was living was sure. When my God-fearing superstitious neighbor Mrs. Kamboj, first told me about all this, I had simply laughed it away.But gradually my problems and pain increased leaving me to languish in a pool of extreme misery. My heart wanted  to consent to the stories heard but my educated,sophisticated mind just ruled out any such possibility of any spirit or "atma" harassing me.The smell of something burning, unbelievingly but true, however persisted in a stubborn manner in my house day after day hallucinating my existence and harrowed my family.I became unimaginably pale and weak-a rickety structure with sunken eyes and high fever which  would never leave despite the best of medication  provided. IS ANYTHING BURNING IN YOUR HOUSE? The final blow was given by the family which had come to live in the house next to ours.One fine evening,their fourteen year old boy came rushing,panting and literally barged into my house to inform that something was burning,and the obnoxious smell perforating had made their existence a hell!I assured him that everything was alright but the truth was that I was shaken out of wits and this finally pushed me to take a weird decision! ARRIVAL OF THE SHABBY BABA OR TANTRIK My official "chaprasi"(attendant)Nagina who was continually pestering me to get treated by a Baba of his village, had his way when I  asked him to call  the said Baba, as in any case,by hook or crook, I wanted to be fit ,wanted to defeat my maimed existence and once again stand on my feet. The old dangerous looking Baba came late that evening clad in a loose sack like brownish dress with a "jhola" (cloth bag),slung over one of his shoulders.He gave me an intent serious look and  a streak of spontaneous fear ran across his saggy, shriveled and wrinkled face. Instantly he took out some herbs,powder,asked for an iron container and burnt those in it after moving it all over my body.While doing all these, he was chanting some odd "mantras" too. Though I did not have much faith in his activities but somewhere in my mind, Nissim Ezekiel's poem,"The night of the scorpion" was trickling. Sometimes more than scepticism and rationalism, age old beliefs help-with this notion I let him to do his job.After a while he sprinkled few drops of holy water on me and asked me to close eyes and beg forgiveness to the mistress of the house,who was no more, for unknowingly hurting her space of existence! WHAT????MY throbbing head throbbed more but I did as he said,my hands reaching out to some hundred rupees notes pushed inside my pillows."NO,NO MONEY","MY POWER WILL VANISH IF I TAKE MONEY",HE ANNOUNCED WITH PRIDE GLORIFYING HIS OLD FACE. Nagina quickly made a glass of Indian "sherbat" with sugar and lime juice and offered him,which he gladly consumed and left my house assuring that from next morning I will be free from the bondage of pain. MORNING OF RADIATING RAINBOWS The next morning did come and believe or not all my ailments were doomed.I was able to walk,breathe without difficulties and live my life! Now though,still I would not advocate people to resort to such things BUT CAN ANYONE GIVE AN ANSWER IN MY CASE- WHERE DOCTORS FAILED A BABA SUCCEEDED. INDIA,CERTAINLY IS A LAND OF AMAZEMENT WRAPPED IN LAYERS OF UNDUG SCIENCES!!!! rashmi. Rashmi Singh Personality Development And Soft Skills Trainer at New Delhi,India. Websites: http://connect.in.com/rashmi-singh/blog/rashmi-singhs-rivieraoceans-of-lonelinessthe-delugepart-1--229401-1.html The above site is visible along with many other topics in one of the most renowned media sites of India,network 18(IBN7,CNN,CNBC) http://www.rrashmi211.blogspot.com http://www.shimmeringbutterfly.blogspot.com Both the above sites are also visible as the last 2 links in the Asia Section  of http;//www.news.net |